Pennsylvania Has One of the Best (and Worst) Cities to Meet Singles
If you’re single and looking to mingle, then perhaps you’d like to find the perfect city to either have some unattached fun or meet that special someone. So, which cities are the best for singles in America? As it turns out, Pennsylvania has one of the best, and worst, cities to meet singles in the U.S.
The study comes from Zumper.com. In it, they explain, “From the bustling streets of Atlanta, Georgia, to the charming neighborhoods of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, these cities offer many opportunities for singles to connect and thrive. With affordable living options, vibrant entertainment scenes, and bustling dating environments, these cities are the perfect places to embark on your cuffing season journey, or to relish in the joys of singlehood.”
As for methodology, the crew at Zumber.com “evaluated around 100 top cities on median rent price, percentage of single population, cost of living, median income, unemployment rate, and access to dining and entertainment.” Then, they ranked the results. So, a lot of different factors went into these calculations. One key takeaway, which doesn’t have to do with our area, is that New Haven, Connecticut, has the highest population of singles at 61.49%, according to the study. So, if you’re purely looking for numbers, that’s a good spot for you.
Pennsylvania Has One of the Best (and Worst) Cities to Meet Singles
So, which Pennsylvania cities is one of the best to meet singles? There are actually a few on this list. The highest comes in at No. 10, and it’s Pittsburgh. “The city’s 59% single population makes it an excellent place for singles to connect,” the outlet states. “Pittsburgh also offers a moderate level of entertainment options and a well-rounded restaurant scene.” But, Philadelphia is on here, too. It comes it at No. 69. At least it’s on the list, but it has among the worst grading for “entertainment per capita” and “restaurants per capita” at a D. It also got a D in the cost of rent, cost of living and non-family median income. Ouch. Find the full study on the best cities for singles here.
Holiday Dating Do's and Don'ts
Don't Move Too Fast
If you’re started dating someone you really like, it might be temping to bring them to Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner. But, that could also freak them out. I remember going out with someone just once and getting invited to a holiday dinner. It made me a little uncomfortable, because even if I liked that person, it seemed like a big jump. So, if you do want to invite that new love to a holiday family event, make sure to talk it over with them and give them the option to say no.
This young couple is totally surprised by moving too fast.
Don't Go Crazy on Gifts If You're in a New Relationship
If you’re in a newer relationship, resist the temptation to buy your new love too much for Christmas. “Oh, he’s a Packers fan! I’m going to buy all the Packers gear I can find!” Just don’t do it. It’s okay to give gifts, but keep it small if you haven’t been together long, or you might look insane.
This young woman is spending too much on her new love.
Do Give Small, Meaningful Gifts
If you’re in a new relationship, you should get something for your new partner during the holidays. But, as mentioned above, don’t overdo it. A small, meaningful gift will likely be welcomed during the holidays and not scare your new love away.
This small gift is perfect for the holidays.
Don't Freak Out If You Don't See Your New Love As Much During the Holidays
Maybe you’re used to seeing your new love a few times a week. What if that’s just once a week, or less, during the holidays? Don’t freak out or start crying or anything. The holidays are a busy time for all, and that means schedules change.
This couple is fighting over missing dates over the holidays.
Do Be on Good Behavior at Holiday Parties with Your New Love
You might get invited to some fun holiday parties or work parties by your new love, and you might want to invite them to yours. That’s fine and much less pressure than a family event. But, be on good behavior. Don’t try to be the life of the party or anything, as you might mortify your date. Sometimes, people like to overdo it in the early stages and try to really impress, but you really just need to be yourself when meeting new friends and chill out a bit.
This couple is enjoying themselves at a holiday party.
